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Today, a friend of mine asked me for a favour. Something to do with an ex-boyfriend of hers. If this would have been me from before, I would have taken the time to counsel her, tell her about the pattern of negativity that I've seen repeating in her life, and I would have spent hours...

Actually, I Can Only Feel Sorry For Them

Recently, I’ve realized that, for some people I am either a shoulder to cry on, or an easy prey for their petty games. Simply because I am caring and compassionate, and because I am honest and upfront, it doesn’t mean that they get to lean on me when they are in trouble, or take me...

Oh Yes, I Rant

I scream. I yell. I screech like a banshee. I cackle like a withered old crone. Rub the snot off my nose. Hot, angry tears spring forth. I curse like a sailor till I’m blue in my face. I let go so I can let it go. I’ve held it all inside of me. This anger. For...

Meeting of The Minds

My definition of 'Friendship' between a guy and a girl: The ability to say "I love you" without having to explain that the feeling is NOT ROMANTIC at all. Unfortunately, I haven't met such a guy ever in my entire life. Sucks, right? 😦

Why Does It Have To Make Sense?

Just finished watching an old re-run of a Sex and the City episode that was titled 'ex and the city'. You know, for whatever reason I could never identify with any of the four girls in the series - and even more so with Carrie. Many a times I have been told that I say...

Updated! Ready to Go!

Well... many of you have written to me wondering why I haven't updated and sent out my latest newsletter yet! To be honest with you folks, it has been a rough ride for me. And I know that this must be sounding like one hell of a long, and repetitive complaint - but trust me,...

Emotional and Sentimental

This hit me yesterday - I am going to have only 10 more days before I leave India for ever and ever. I really have no idea when I am going to come back - if I am going to come back at all...Who knows what lies ahead in the future. Although I am excited...

Que Sera Sera….

Life is so funny sometimes...you suddenly get happy moments and they are counterbalanced by an equal amount of sadness. I was looking forward to going the the USA for so long...I had been telling people that I am going to the USA for so long...the story had actually started to gain 'mythic' proportions...And then, it...

Gratitude for Politics and Rejection

It was quite an interesting afternoon thought – and finally, I have time to sit down and write it down. It so happened that: as I was getting ready to meet my friend for lunch today, I was also thinking about my current work load, and was also (in my head) designing the flow of...

The Dilemma of Friendship: The Lies and The Pretences

I have seen that Lies and Pretences flow around us like water and we are swimming along with the tide within this water.We dislike it, but we swim along nevertheless. Something totally crazy occurred a few days back. Imagine for a while that there is this woman A who hates woman B due to the...